OVERCOMING FAILURE IN LOVE

Life may not be a rollercoaster ride for every one and everytime.  It is something comprised of many elements which   may make you feel sad,happy and   confuse you at times.

Love life may not be  a bliss for everyone.And not every is lucky enough to get a good partner.Just think over this statement.Think of those times when you  had a merry time with your partner.You could rate it as the best moment of your life.It may not be  best everytime.I have seen people who sometimes felt dejected in relationship.They get to hurt to such an extent that they lose interest in worldly affairs.They fail to interpret things happening around them.This is an aftermath of getting  dejeted in love.Believe me very few people are capable of accepting defeat in lovelife.I've seen my close friends who could serve as the best example for this topic.

It is a  state of melancholous 

depression where you fail to understand things happening around you.You lose interest in your  closed ones.You reminisce your past thinking of the good times you had with your partner.Well I sue my observation for some reason as I am obsessed with Indian  bollywood movies.I learnt all these  topics from my idiot box.Trust me it can be very entertaining at times watching a Bollywood movies.Jokes apart,let me tell you that these things  often  have the tendency to detioriate your health.It is not going to help you again.That was past and we have future.Who knows in future you may not get dejected.I have always been highlighting these few factors like hurt,trust,fidelity etc.Being loyal and faithful towards   your  partner is the need of the hour.But I am afraid its not the case.These are  the elements in a relationship.Well lets talk about the aftermath of being ditched by your partner.  
Your life is important and I know getting in affair and  moving out is not an easy task at all.I really know how bad it feels and this is the period where depression overtakes us and we feel low.Any how this should not happen.I will write few  lessons where you can overcome or atleast try to overcome your failure in love.

1.Try doing something constructive.
In order to avoid thinking of our past flaws in relationship,we can instead utilize our time in doing some constructive work  like helping our siblings,babysitting your neice,going to market etc.These kind of activities will actually help your mind diverting yourself into some other work.

2.Avoid thinking of the past relationship as life is all about moving on.I know its difficult to get dejected and dumped by your partner.Faith and Trust is a key element in this context of discussion.Talk about your family and indulge yourself into some activities which would free you off from thinking of your love life.     

3.Try to change the environment and surroundings.
Forget everything and just remove everything associated with your past love.Not even a single picture or anything which would remind you of him/her.   

4.Try meeting new people.This would take you off into new things and you can concentrate on your activities.

5.Try to take all the positives from your past relationship and never lose hope. 

6.You may be past this step, but if the partner wants to try and make the relationship work, think about it. Now, I'm not saying you should forgive them. But this is something you need to figure out on your own. Can you honestly truly ever forgive your partner for doing this to you? Do you feel the relationship can truly ever work again? Or are you just too angry at them that you can't ever forgive them?

you all must be thinking what made me write this....so friends day before yesterday i have attended a hanging suicide case....which was a love failure matter..and that made me write this.....hope you must have liked it and if you feel that with this someone may get benefitted do share it with them....your suggestions are always welcome..



H K Maharaj