Memories of ex boyfriends are something that haunts most gals and the problem with ex boyfriends is that you really can’t live with them and at the same time, you really can’t live without them.
That’s the problem with ex boyfriends. The more you want to hide all his gifts and photographs in the attic, the more the image will splash across on your mind. If you have moved on with your life, leaving the excess luggage such as ex boyfriends behind, then I am really happy for you. And if you cannot really forget him, then I would suggest it’s time for you to move on. It’s not like he was your last option and he only seems the best to you because you haven’t really met someone better!
Desperate times calls for desperate measures? NOT in this case. Ladies, if you are looking to get your ex boyfriend back, desperation is definitely not the way to go. For whatever reason you have split up, now is not the time to sound like a needy, bratty princess!! It is time to toughen up that little heart of yours and step back to gain new perspective on what caused the split to begin with.
Take a deep breath, go and hang out with some long lost girlfriends. In doing so you will surely gain your composure and begin to become more confident. If your intentions are how to get your ex- boyfriend back, this is the first step, most definitely. Rediscover yourself and become the woman he fell in love with at the start.
Once you have found yourself again, forgive him of any past wrong doings. As you have gained some new perspective on the entire relationship, it is time to let your light shine. No promises, however there is a wrong way and a right way go about doing it.
If you found yourself overly clingy or too possessive, that is the first bad habit to break. You both need independence. Also, absence not only makes the heart grow fonder, but it causes him to miss you. In order to get your ex boyfriend back, start by doing the little things that you did when you two first started dating. Perhaps there was a little way-with-words tactic that he used. Show him that you remembered, yet don't be too obvious or over bearing. This is a slow process.
If there was a favorite place that you two visited in the beginning of the relationship, revisit it and let him know you thought of him when you did, via email. In the goal of trying to get your ex boyfriend back, it is vital to be yourself. I am sure that many women failed trying to be someone that they weren't, in efforts to impress him. Wrong answer ladies!
If he is seeing someone else, it is highly recommended that you not try to get your ex back. This is for your own sake. Give it more then a couple of weeks before you make any contact with him. See if he will contact you first. If not, why bother?
Vengeance is not a good move, as much as you want to make a pass at a buddy of his. This will not only make him jealous, it will push him further away. It is also highly recommended to just make out like you would still be happy even though you aren't together. Do not overdo it though, because that will just show him that you are happily moving on. If you didn't cuss before, do not cuss now.You should also make sure that he knows that you do miss him, but to a minimum. It's all about strategy and confidence. When that is mastered it can be easier then you think to get your ex boyfriend back.
.....thanx to miss sharma who made me write this
-HARRY
