BABA RANCHOR DAS KE PAAWAN VACHAN....

1.Never try to be successful , pursue 

excellence

* Success is the bye product & the result

* Excellence always creates Success & it is a process of continual improvement

* Never run after success

* Let it happen automatically in life

2. Freedom to Life- Life is beautiful

* Don’t die before the actual death

* Live every moment to the fullest as if today is the last day

* Life is gifted to humankind to live

* Live & Live happily towards happiness

3. Passion leads to Excellence

* When your hobby becomes your profession , the passion becomes your profession

* You will be able to lead up to excellence in life

* Satisfaction, Joy, Pleasure & love will be the outcome of the passion

* Following your passion for years , you will surely become somebody one day

4. Learning i very simple- Never  STOP learning

*Be humble

*Teachers do fail Learners never fail

* Learning is never complicate or difficult

* Learning is always possible whatever rule you apply

5.Pressure at head

* Current education system is developing pressure on students head

* University intelligence is useful & making some impact in the life , but it cannot be at the cost of life.

6. Life is management of emotions & not 

optimization of intelligence

* Memory and regular study have definite value and it always helps you in leading a life.

* You are able to survive even if you can make some mark in the path of the life.

* With artificial intelligence, you can survive & win but you cannot prove yourself genius.

* Therefore, in this process genius dies in you.

7.Necessity is the mother of invention

* Necessity creates pressure and forces you to invent something or to make it happen or to use your potentiality.

* Aamir Khan in this film, 3 idiots, is able to prove in the film by using vacuum pump at the last moment.

8.Simplicity in life

* Life is need base never want base. Desires have no ends.

* Simplicity is way of life and Indian culture highly stresses on simple living and high thinking, and this is the way of life: ‘Legs down to earth and eyes looking beyond the sky’

9.Industrial Leadership

* Dean of the institute in 3 idiots is showing very typical leadership. He has his own principles, values and ideology and he leads the whole institute accordingly

* This is an example of current institutional leadership. In the present scenario, most of the institutes are fixed in a block or Squarish thinking.

10.Love is time & space free

* Trust your partner

* Love is not time bound and space bound

* It is very well demonstrated in this movie same love was demonstrated by Krishna and Meera.

* Love is border free, time free, unconditional and space free.

11.Importance of words in communication

* If communication dies, everything dies.

* Each word has impact and value in communication.

* One word if used wrongly or emphasized wrongly or paused at a wrong place in communication what effect it creates and how is it affected is demonstrated very well in this movie.

12.Mediocrity is penalized

* Middle class family or average talent or average institute is going to suffer and has to pay maximum price in the life if they do not upgrade their living standards.

* To be born poor or as an average person is not a crime but to die as an average person with middle class talent is miserable and if you are unable to optimize your potentiality and die with unused potentiality then that is your shameful truth.

* One should not die as a mediocre He/she has to bring out genius inside him/her mediocre. and has to use his/her potentiality to the optimum level.

***dedicated to one of my friends who is suffering from examination and college pressure.....PANDEY its for you

                                         

.........HARRY

is LOVE a waste of time...?????????????

now its your turn friends give me your opinion...tell me what is your opinion about LOVE..

for me LOVE is

                                                                         L-loss

                                                                         O- of 

                                                                         V- valuable

                                                                         E- energy

HARRY

broken heart......READ THIS

When a relationship comes to an end, it can be considered as one of the most painful events in a person's life. If we are not ready for a break up, we might get a feeling of being pushed straight to the cliff.

People who experience break up feel lonely, broken and alone. Every romantic relationship starts with high hopes and dreams. Plans were created by the couples together. If this relationship comes to an end, both parties feel failure, frustration and regrets.

Dealing with a broken heart is hard. It leaves you helpless and keeps your energy level low. However, you cannot live your entire life in grief. Instead, stand up and find the most comfortable ways for you to get over the heartbreaking incident.

Reality hurts and accepting the fact that the relationship has to end is painful, but you have to accept the fact that there are things in life that are not meant to be. By doing this, you will have the courage to move forward.

Destroy memories of the past. After a painful breakup, most of us stay on a state of illusion that the broken relationship will be fixed on its own. However, it is best to stay focused and start moving on. One of the best ways to do it is destroying everything that keeps you in the state of illusion. This means that you have to destroy or let go of the things that reminds you of your failed relationship.
Meet new friends. Although breakup makes you feel that there is no tomorrow, detaching yourself from the world will not help ease the pain. Some feel that they have lost their friends and their identity after the breakup, thus, it is best to go outside and meet people. Joining a social networking club or volunteering in a community activity allows you to meet new people and gain new friends. This will also help you find the person you are after the breakup.

Although losing someone you love from a break up is difficult and moving on seems like so hard to do, it is best to keep on living the life the way you should. Moving on may take forever but time heal all wounds.

Try all these....or try anything new ........be happy and make others happy
always remember GOD is with you..
HARE KRISHNA MAHARAJ

last desire.....

one day u r mine baby...muaaah

.....to come in a coffin and the grim-faced uniformed person receiving my coffin, wrapped in the tri-colour, the carriage to the parade ground, the set-jawed shok-shastra farewell salute by steely soldiers.

...the silent sorrow of upraised guns, slowly brought , barrel downward, to the ground, left arm tauntingly extended to the right before re-tracking , the holding of palm to chest , the sudden dropping of head, the 30 second hushed silence , then the regulation rajnigandha & marigold wreaths from the NAVY, ARMY & AIR FORCE personnel before the body escorted by a comrade  begins its last journey home.

...i think this should the proudest moment of my life.....and every son of our mother land should have this desire...

JAI HIND
H K MAHARAJ

OVERCOMING FAILURE IN LOVE

Life may not be a rollercoaster ride for every one and everytime.  It is something comprised of many elements which   may make you feel sad,happy and   confuse you at times.

Love life may not be  a bliss for everyone.And not every is lucky enough to get a good partner.Just think over this statement.Think of those times when you  had a merry time with your partner.You could rate it as the best moment of your life.It may not be  best everytime.I have seen people who sometimes felt dejected in relationship.They get to hurt to such an extent that they lose interest in worldly affairs.They fail to interpret things happening around them.This is an aftermath of getting  dejeted in love.Believe me very few people are capable of accepting defeat in lovelife.I've seen my close friends who could serve as the best example for this topic.

It is a  state of melancholous 

depression where you fail to understand things happening around you.You lose interest in your  closed ones.You reminisce your past thinking of the good times you had with your partner.Well I sue my observation for some reason as I am obsessed with Indian  bollywood movies.I learnt all these  topics from my idiot box.Trust me it can be very entertaining at times watching a Bollywood movies.Jokes apart,let me tell you that these things  often  have the tendency to detioriate your health.It is not going to help you again.That was past and we have future.Who knows in future you may not get dejected.I have always been highlighting these few factors like hurt,trust,fidelity etc.Being loyal and faithful towards   your  partner is the need of the hour.But I am afraid its not the case.These are  the elements in a relationship.Well lets talk about the aftermath of being ditched by your partner.  
Your life is important and I know getting in affair and  moving out is not an easy task at all.I really know how bad it feels and this is the period where depression overtakes us and we feel low.Any how this should not happen.I will write few  lessons where you can overcome or atleast try to overcome your failure in love.

1.Try doing something constructive.
In order to avoid thinking of our past flaws in relationship,we can instead utilize our time in doing some constructive work  like helping our siblings,babysitting your neice,going to market etc.These kind of activities will actually help your mind diverting yourself into some other work.

2.Avoid thinking of the past relationship as life is all about moving on.I know its difficult to get dejected and dumped by your partner.Faith and Trust is a key element in this context of discussion.Talk about your family and indulge yourself into some activities which would free you off from thinking of your love life.     

3.Try to change the environment and surroundings.
Forget everything and just remove everything associated with your past love.Not even a single picture or anything which would remind you of him/her.   

4.Try meeting new people.This would take you off into new things and you can concentrate on your activities.

5.Try to take all the positives from your past relationship and never lose hope. 

6.You may be past this step, but if the partner wants to try and make the relationship work, think about it. Now, I'm not saying you should forgive them. But this is something you need to figure out on your own. Can you honestly truly ever forgive your partner for doing this to you? Do you feel the relationship can truly ever work again? Or are you just too angry at them that you can't ever forgive them?

you all must be thinking what made me write this....so friends day before yesterday i have attended a hanging suicide case....which was a love failure matter..and that made me write this.....hope you must have liked it and if you feel that with this someone may get benefitted do share it with them....your suggestions are always welcome..



H K Maharaj